Exam is the word which the most school going and college going
students fear. Some fear is so intense that it hurts sentiments of students and
students goes in shock and tries to end life.
What is Exam?
Exam is a simple paper which contains 10-15 questions of which
you have to write answer. An exam does
not tell that what you are in good and bad. It may happen that the questions
which you have read had not come in an exam that is why you failed or got less
marks in Exams. Remember an exam does not define your career it’s your choice
and your liking that chooses career.
Why do student fear of giving Exams?
The first thought that comes in the mind of students is that
they think that what will happen if they fail in EXAM. Failure is just a
healthy part of success.
No one counts how many times you fail success matters
and the efforts that you are taking to cope up with your failures. I assure you
that you must know at least one person who has failed in some kind of exams but
now he is a happy person enjoying life. Every person has their own greatest
failure in life.
You should have an Ambition in your life. The ambition
should be always in your mind .Just follow the steps required to reach that
ambition.
Most students if they fail in exams also fear that what will
their parents say and what about their image in society
Always keep in mind that no one cares about your problems except
your parents and sometimes your boyfriend or girl friend. So image in society
does not bother you much. Mouth is meant to speak but not to make rude comments
or abuse anybody. Just enjoy what people say .
Don’t get into conflict with them
.Avoid company of such students who are lazy, does not respect your opinion and
they are always in a mood of de motivating someone.
Convincing the parents is the toughest part for many
students .Just tells them i will improve next time. I will be better next time
.If they are not listening just wait for few time to pass and show them your
results.
Remember you have to do it. You should develop burning
desire to achieve your ambition .Just search different paths how you can
achieve your Aims. At one time you will be at the top of the world.
Limiting self belief is also the important problem why a student’s
fails. You may have noticed that you are failing in same subjects again and
again and you even not know what the problem is. The problem is limited self
image. In your past you may have failed
in that subject .This bad experience is responsible for your activities in
future .Past is past concentrate on your present and future.
The problem must be that you hate that subject and that’s
why you are failing in exams. It’s a natural tendency of human being they don’t
do the things that they don’t like. So change this belief of yourself. Consider
yourself as an intelligent student think like him/her. Never lose hope .Suppose
you don’t like maths always chant mantras like I love maths I like algebra I
like calculus and you can even try writing these on a piece of paper .This will
help to change yourself belief of yourself
Starting forming images in your mind about yourself, your
future and your ambition . If the images are negative edit the image as you
want to be in future. See yourself as a successful
student .Practice self image practice daily. It will help to break your
limiting beliefs.
So everyone from today start thinking about their ambition
and how to achieve it.
Cheers and Enjoy your life to fullest and don’t ever take
your mind away from what you want.
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